Temple of Eros Alchemy

Codes Of Conduct

I provide a container of two-way touch and energetic exchanges. A space of authentic relating where you can practice new ways of being in relationship. And be held in all that unfolds for you. The experience I provide is to repair relational ruptures and show you what is possible in intimacy. For you then to be able to take the skills and expanded consciousness into your own relational landscape. I will never become romantically or sexually involved with my clients outside of temple time.

Everything we do together is a practice. A practice of presence, somatic and emotional attunement,  radical transparency, vulnerability, communication, and orienting towards connection.

There are no limits on sensing, feeling, experiencing, and expressing.

There are limits on the actions we take.

We create and honor limits on what we do with our own body and each other’s.

I will never touch your body without your permission and expect the same from you.

My genitals will never be touched.

There will be no fluid exchange. And no mouth to body.

Orgasm will never be a goal in this space. This is a space to discover what else is possible.

The medicine is low to medium states of relaxed arousal - which opens the body and heart for unconscious and repressed material and patterning to rise to the surface for metabolizing and release. We do not work with high states of arousal in this space as they can become a distraction.

Together, we’ll create the agreements each time we meet. Where we will go together and where we won’t.

Anything that we negotiate and do together in this space will have a clear purpose to support your intentions and learning process.

I will only allow access to my body in ways that feel good to me.

I will only touch your body in ways that I can offer with a full heart.

In the event of an accidental or unintentional boundary violation, we will pause to discuss what occurred with the intention of repairing the rupture.  If there are repeated accidental or unintentional boundary violations - the session may terminate at my discretion at any moment.

Any contact that occurs between sessions will be regarding scheduling/logistics or integration of what occurred in temple time. 

What To Expect:

We will work together session by session. Assessing after each session whether it is appropriate to continue to work together. Sessions may range between 2-6 hours in length.

I weave singing and sounding into the space I hold. To support the opening and movement of your energy. 

1st Meeting:

We’ll settle into the space together.

We’ll explore the Pillars of Intimacy. These are the basic skills required for intimacy with yourself and others.

We’ll then put these skills into practice through the framework of the Wheel of Consent; a tool to expand your capacity for giving and receiving. 

I’ll teach you the wheel and then we’ll move into the three minute game; a two-way touch exchange. The touch will be contained to our hands and arms to begin with. This is a practice in asking for what you want, in receiving, in setting your limits, honoring my limits and desires, and in negotiating. A container to bring forth patterns and beliefs in relational intimacy that are no longer serving you. To practice new ways of being and discover what supports you in feeling safe in relationships.

2nd Meeting:

We’ll settle into the space together. Checking in and discussing intentions.

I’ll guide us through a series grounding exercises before moving into touch and energetic exchanges.

Your intentions will be our guidepost, as we move through timed containers of giving and receiving one-way touch. Pausing to tend to whatever arises from your body and soul along the way.

Our second session may include a container of two-way touch based on my assessment of the skills I require you to possess before moving into any deep spaces of a two-way touch exchange.

3rd Meeting and beyond:

Your intentions will always be our guidepost. 

Sessions may include 1-way touch containers, 2-way touch containers, erotic rituals, and the use of plant and heart medicines to support your opening and de-armoring.

Intensives will flow in a similar progression over a period of several days.