Temple of Eros Alchemy
ancient arts of sacred intimacy
a weaving together of intimacy coaching, somatics, sacred sexuality, sexological bodywork, tantra,
and shamanic practices
Do you desire presence and connection?
Do you yearn to be seen and loved in your truth?
Do you long to feel your innate belonging and worthiness?
Enter the Temple of Eros Alchemy: A sanctuary to practice and learn the skills of navigating the nuances of relational intimacy for ecstatic connection.
A refuge from a world of sexuality that is goal oriented and focused on performance, penetration, and orgasm.
A space to discover what else is available in eroticism.
A space to repair relational ruptures of abandonment, violation, betrayal, and neglect.
To imprint new somatic and relational experiences that allow for freedom of expression & giving and recieving of love.
A space of mutual reverance.
I’m Ariel,
and I want
to hold and guide you
through your evolution.
We’re co-creating a sacred space for you to:
Feel safe being vulnerable
Locate and clearly express what you desire
Work through the shame of asking for what you want
Develop the capacity to receive
Express and receive a no - to have and to respect limits - without it meaning an end
Co-create relational agreements and expectations
Navigate rupture and repair
Hold disappointment and grief
Move slowly and build a foundation of safety and trust to hold expansive experiences of ecstatic connection
Cultivate the skills and capacity for the practice of love making as meditation
Utilize your own erotic energy to alchemize your wounds
*Please note* This is not a full-service offering.
I provide a two-way container of touch and energetic exchanges. A space of authentic relating where you can practice new ways of being in relationship. And be held in all that unfolds for you. The experience I provide is to repair relational ruptures and show you what is possible in intimacy. For you then to be able to take the skills and expanded consciousness into your own relational landscape. Read my codes of conduct here.
I see an ocean of beautiful men that are severed from the earth.
From their own divine feminine and masculine energy.
Men who have been taught to disconnect from their emotions and prove their manhood through conquest, ownership, and suppression. Who are drowning in a constant pressure to perform and provide. Men who feel they are never enough. Men who are searching for their belonging in sex, money, and power - at the expense of authentic connection.
Men who are desperately in need of safe spaces to be held and grieve.
To feel seen, heard, and met in their truth with acceptance and love. To learn the skills and nuances of relational intimacy.
No one’s journey will look the same.
We’ll build the necessary safety and trust between us before any deep dives into expanded states of consciousness together.
Our journey can include a combination of virtual meetings, in-person sessions at my Sanctuary in Salem, and custom multi-day intensives at an agreed upon location.
Begin by filling out an application
If I think there might be a spark between us, I’ll respond with a link so you can set up a time for us to chat live.
If there is chemistry, we’ll discuss our next steps.
If you live in another state and would like to fly me out for an intensive with you, we will begin our relationship virtually before meeting in person.
Each time we meet in The Temple we spend a minimum of two hours together.
The exchange is $600/ hr.
Multi-day custom intensives with medicine work, preparation and integration
begin at $20,000
The Temple of Eros Alchemy is a sanctuary to practice Sacred Intimacy; embodying a reverance for all life. Cultivating connection through authentic, transparent, consensual and reciprocal relating. Being conscious of and intentional in how we touch ourselves and others emotionally, physically, energetically, and spiritually.
“Ariel - words can truly not capture the gratitude I feel. The depth and intimacy of the healing you midwifed in me is so profound. And reached places no other therapy could reach.
We de-shamed desire. De-shamed pleasure. De-shamed the body.
Healed a pre-verbal hungry ghost state of sexualized deprivation.
I came to you fragmented and on the brink of a break up. You have officially saved my marriage and helped make me whole.”
This work is not for the faint of heart.
It will change your life forever.
Do you dare to live a life in love?
The Container
I bring my skills in navigating complex relational terrain, working with energy and de-armorning, using erotic energy to alchemize wounds, co-creating rituals for ecstatic experiences, guiding altered states of consciousness, safely working with trauma and the nervous system, and tending to grief and the inner child. I bring my own experience and journey with transforming my relationships. Coming into divine union within myself and the world around me.
I’ve been deeply harmed by men who were hurting. Through my own evolution and healing journey, I’ve alchemized my pain and anger into unstoppable love and a deep desire and capacity to hold men as they transform their relationship to sex, money, and power. Through my life experiences as an escort, exotic dancer, and survivor of sexual abuse and exploitation - I have a unique view into, and experience with, men’s deepest struggles around relationship, sexuality, power, and money.
My purpose is to hold the container that I see men truly need to satiate their heart’s desires and needs for love, connection, belonging, and a sense of wholeness. The container my soul has been training to offer and hold. I envision a world where the people with the most privilege and power are embodied beings whose actions are aligned with heart centered values.
Meet me in the Temple of Eros Alchemy.
It is an honor to enter a space of mutual reverance and sacred intimacy with you.
Meet me in the temple
Leave your masks at the door
Let me see you
Naked in your truth
Let me see how thirsty you are
For these sacred waters
Show me where it hurts
Allow me to stretch my hand
into this wound
until we touch the pleasure
Unveiling the seed to water
Now let it blossom into a flower
Watch me get drunk off its intoxicating fragrance
Give your animal body over to me
Open
Soften
Surrender
Let me kill the sinner and the saint in you
Devour you with my love
Bathe you in my emotions
Drown you in my honey nectar
Envelope you in my embrace
Pray at the altar of our bodies
Offer your shame to the liberating fire of pleasure
Pour your grief into a challace
Devote yourself to presence
Sing your souls song
Love, just for the sake of it
Come back to life and feel it all
“Engaging in these touch-based relational practices with Ariel was a profoundly transformational experience.
I was able, with her support, to undergo immense healing around my relationship to my body, my wants and needs, sexuality, touch, and women.
Our work together was able to touch deep and vulnerable layers of my being that no other form of therapeutic support has been able to.
I left feeling more confident and liberated in my body, my relationships and my sexuality. I’m grateful beyond words for our time together”